Over the weekend I was talking with a friend about the recent deluge of erotica to the book market; some say it started with the ever-popular Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy, but the truth is that's it been around for a long time now, under various different covers.
This of course sparked another conversation and towards the end, she asked:
"So do you guys ever 'play cop?' "
For me, there would be no bigger turn-off. I think about the stories my husband comes home and sometimes shares with me, and I can't imagine ever asking him to break out the handcuffs (even fur-lined ones) and bring it into our bedroom. I figure that it takes a whole hell of a lot for him to make the transition to home life to begin with...to finally "turn it off"...why would I want to drive his mind or body back to the workplace when the time finally comes to...turn it on?
So...needless to say...it's not for me.
However, I have to ask: have any of you ever "played cop" when your spouse is off-duty? If so, how did it feel for you? What about him? Without too many vulgar details, let's go there Ladies!
Spill. I promise to get involved in the conversation---no judgement.